Women are awakening; in growing numbers we and are diving in to experiencing natural childbirth in its full glory! We are reconnecting with our sacred feminine power and calling upon our sensuality to birth our babies.
When we birth with our sensuality we effortlessly allow layers of armor to melt away and reveal the hidden jewel of our sacred sensual strength and passion. Within this secret doorway lies all of the power and connection we need to have an amazing natural childbirth.
When we embraced this it can lead us far beyond birth ruled by pain and fear and into the infinite where we rediscover natural childbirth as an empowering, expansive, satisfying, deeply rich, and even orgasmic experience! In this article I will share with you how women are able to use their sensuality to achieve an amazing natural childbirth, how I did it, and how you can do it too!
Orgasmic Natural Childbirth
ORGASMIC BIRTH! I know, it sounds bizarre, but it’s not orgasmic like we think, it is sensual but not sexual, it’s a whole new orgasmic that stretches way beyond what we have perceived in our lifetimes. It stretches far beyond, it is amazing, powerful, expansive, mind blowing, indescribable, a truly out of this world experience!
Natural Childbirth Video “Orgasmic Birth, The Best-Kept Secret”
Among the natural childbirth documentaries I watched while I was pregnant was “Orgasmic Birth, The Best-Kept Secret.” It resonated with me that giving birth was a simple extension of the very sexual very sensual experience that created the baby in the first place. As this truth shone down upon me I began to see birth as an amazing opportunity to dive into unrefined freedom and feminine expression!
The most common way people give up their power
is by thinking they don’t have any.
~ Alice Walker ~
Don’t Be Fooled- You Were Made for Natural Childbirth
One of the best kept secrets and one of the biggest truths in this world is that as a woman you are an amazing and powerful force in this world, which is why you were designed for natural childbirth!
The energy of natural childbirth is also an amazing and powerful force in this world, and one that we have been perfectly paired with. As powerful and magnificent as birth is we are just as powerful and magnificent ourselves!
The secret is to draw upon your personal power and energy and align it to merge with the energy of the birth. To do this you must first understand that birth, by nature is the ultimate feminine act, it calls us to operate from our full feminine power.
One of the greatest sources of our feminine power lies within our sensual nature.
“Dive into the lusciously rich experience of who you truly are and birth your baby from there!”
We are rediscovering our primordial feminine splendor and power that over time seems to have gotten lost. Within our core lies the very essence of what we are as women. We are truly magical and powerful beings.
We are a woman’s touch, soft, tender, and sensual
We are a Mothers love with everlasting strength
We are passionate and fierce
Yet at the same time we are soft and yielding
These gifts run through us and this is whats going to help you to birth your baby!
“It is possible to have an ecstatic birth—in fact, that is the best natural high that I know of. And these states of consciousness are best reached when a woman is fully aware and fully awake. Women don’t have a way to know how their body works until they really try it out in birth. I think that women can be just completely surprised by the change in them from giving birth—you have something powerful in you—that fierce thing comes up—and I think babies need moms to have that fierceness—you feel like you can do anything and that’s the feeling we want moms to have.” Ina May Gaskin
You are Responsible for Your Own Orgasm – You are Responsible for Your Own Orgasmic Natural Childbirth
Remember that birth is an extension of the sensual energy that created your baby in the first place; natural childbirth is the grand climax, this is when the energy peaks and flows powerfully through bringing your baby into life
As your birthing time begins the flood gate swings open and this powerful flame which has so patiently waited inside is set free. Now how you choose to interpret and use this amazingly powerful energy is up to you, and can be the difference between whether your natural childbirth is experienced as pain or pleasure.
“You are responsible for your own orgasm” Meaning you are responsible for your own experience. Most women will agree that you can have horrible sex or amazing sex just based on how you choose to interpret and respond to it.
It’s all about how much you can allow yourself to release into it.
In birth it is helpful to use many of the same tools as you would in great sex……Release into it…… Turn it into something that you embrace and explore. It’s about the exploration, the journey as much as the destination. Ride the intensity of the waves, welcome them into you, become uninhibited, breathe, moan, and tell yourself how AMAZING it feels!
How Your Partner Can Help You to Have an Amazing Natural Childbirth
The answer is love, it is always love. I’m not talking sex, but the physical expression of love can be an enormous help! Kissing, cuddling, sensual caress, massage, and nipple stimulation can all have a positive effect on the progression of birth. When you and your partner are able to remain conscious of allowing your love to flow freely without being restricted, then birth is more likely to flow freely without being restricted.
The Grand Finaly- My Orgasmic Natural Childbirth
There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud
was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
~ Anais Nin ~
When my birthing time began I was amazed by the incredibly powerful sensations of the birthing waves. They were nothing that I could have ever imagined! They were larger than life. About an hour into my birthing time a really powerful pressure wave came on and I thought to myself,”Wow that one hurt!” That moment will stay in my mind forever. It was my moment of truth.
As soon as that thought entered into my mind I felt myself instantly being jerked down to a place of fear. Then a vision opened up in my mind of the long dark and painful road that was ahead of me if I continued to allow myself to interpret the sensations as pain.
So with the very next pressure wave I made a conscious choice that no matter what happened I would interpret the sensations in my body as pleasure. In that instant the sensations turned from pain into pure juicy life force. It was dancing within me igniting my sacred femine power. I felt myself come to life, my sensaulity, my passion, my power, my undying love, and incredible strength rose up within me. Birth called to the feirce lioness inside of me inviting me to embrace and unite with it’s power, calling me to surrender and ride the waves of ecstacy.
My mouth hung open wide as my breath poured from my body, and entered again powerful strong and full, each breath building in momentum, each sensation stronger than the last, taking a hold of me, pulling me in, begging for my surrender, calling me to release and flow into it.
I moaned in ecstasy, it felt so incredible! Through this incredible sensual energy I transcended into an alternate reality, and became consumed by this exquisitley expansive feeling of connection on all levels. I was dancing with a pure and powerful energy. It spiraled through me and moved me baby out into my arms.
Here is our birthing video where you can see and hear the ecstacy of the experience!
My Natural Childbirth Advice
Embrace the sensuality of natural childbirth. Open wide the door that leads to your feminine power. Welcome the energy and intensity of the birth. Say YES to the sensations. Repeat to yourself how amazing they feel. Choose pleasure over pain, become uninhibited, and give your baby a natural childbirth encompassed in LOVE.
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